FOR WOMEN WHO WANT TO LOOK FURTHER
Coaching for women
The Hague or online.
The Hague or online.
You have many roles. Employee, partner, mother, daughter, caregiver, leader. You fill them well. And at the same time you notice that a part of you gets buried under all those roles.
Your question is not what you could do better. Your question is how to come back to what you really want and who you really are.
You are looking for someone who works with you on room for yourself without it becoming a performance. Someone who helps see which expectations you let wash over you, which patterns you pass on, and how you can make choices that are truly yours.
Many women carry more than they show. Expectations, care, responsibility for others, the emotional work in relationships. That is not part of the job, that is what you do on top.
You notice your system is by default focused on others. Your partner, your children, your colleagues, your family. Caring for yourself feels like what remains when everything is done, and that moment rarely comes.
Not because you do not know boundaries, but because the price of saying 'no' seems too big. You have often said yes to keep relationships smooth, to be careful, not to be a bother. You erase yourself.
Not necessarily unhappy, but also not entirely yourself. Much of who you have become came from what others expected, what culture imposed, what seemed normal. The question of what is yours and what is not remains.
Coaching for women with me is not a specific methodology or women's circle. It is work in which we make room for what sits beneath your roles and for what truly feeds or drains you.
We do not get stuck in everything you do. That is undoubtedly a lot. We look at who you really are. What wants to be seen and how does it get the room?
Sessions last 1.5 to 2 hours. For those who care a lot, that time is often needed to settle out of care mode. Everything is welcome. Without judgement, with full attention.
What you say here stays here. You do not have to be strong, not soft, not anything in particular. You may be as you are. All is welcome.
Sessions take place on location in The Hague (indoor or outdoor), online, or a combination.
Women who finish a package often say they come home to themselves more. Not as performance, but as underlying ground.
You learn to feel the difference between what you have learned to do and what you really need. That gives sharper choices.
Not as resistance, but as clarity. You know better what you do and do not want to carry, and you name that more clearly. You take your place.
With partner, children, parents, colleagues. You learn to say something you have not spoken for long. Sometimes uncomfortable, often clarifying.
Not because you have become more selfish, but because you know better that caring for yourself does not cost others. More likely the opposite.
For many women the coaching also works on a layer you cannot fully put in words afterwards. You feel more solid, or more open, or freer.
Coaching for women with me is not a women's circle or a specific methodology. It is individual coaching, one-on-one, in which we work at your pace on what is going on for you.
It starts with an intake. An hour in which we see if there is a click and whether your question suits my approach. For many women this first conversation is already different from conversations they know. Not because something specific happens, but because there is someone who has attention for you without an agenda.
If we decide to work together, we choose a package. The duration we discuss together. For deeper work a bit more time often fits.
In the first sessions you build trust. Between us, but also in the idea that this is a room entirely for you. Many women notice that in the first sessions they start saying things they have never spoken out loud.
After that we work with what shows up. Sometimes that is a concrete situation. A boundary that is not clear. A choice in front of you. A relationship that rubs. Sometimes less concrete. A restlessness, a longing, an emptiness you cannot place. We work with what shows up in the moment, without judgement and with curiosity.
Between sessions there is space. A lot of work happens there, without doing much for it. A few days after a session women often notice they react slightly differently, choose slightly differently. That is where the coaching lands.
At the end of the package we look back. What have you learned to see, what have you changed, what is still open. Some women close clearly. Others decide to continue at a calmer pace.
What this form offers is something many women do not so easily find elsewhere. A place where you do not have to care, do not have to solve, do not have to prove. That alone is for many a difference.
I work with women who feel they carry a lot and who want to work on what sits beneath those roles. My approach combines psychology, systemic work and Eastern wisdom. No fixed step-by-step plan, no quick fix. But room to see more deeply what is actually going on and to move from there with more clarity. I work on location in The Hague. Sessions live indoor or outdoor, online or in combination.
Each package starts with a no-obligation introduction. We discuss your situation and look together at which package suits you. The sessions after that last 1.5 to 2 hours, so we can stand still with you with all the room and attention, without rush or pressure.
A compass for those who want to take a first step. In three sessions we look at what is going on, you recognise your patterns, beliefs and stories and you get fresh insights to take into your work straight away.
For those who want to go to the core. In six sessions we create room for essential change. You explore who you are beyond your patterns, beliefs and stories, and learn to live and work from there.
For specific questions such as (impending) burnout, grief, major life changes or reintegration. A package fully tuned to what you need.
Get in touch for a no-obligation proposal
After a completed package you can always come back for a single session of 1.5 to 2 hours. For a check-in, deepening, or when something new shows up on your path.
Many employers reimburse coaching through the training budget, so it is worth asking. Are the costs a barrier for you? Let me know. There is sometimes room.
In a no-obligation introduction we explore together what is going on and whether there is a click. No commitments, just an honest conversation.
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