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WELLBEING ACROSS LAYERS
Wellbeing coaching

The Hague or online.

Wellbeing coaching for broader wellbeing

Does this sound familiar?

You feel that wellbeing is not only about what you eat or how much you exercise. It is also about how you stand in your life, what costs you, what feeds you, and how your relationships feel. Wellbeing is inextricably tied to your being.

You are not looking for a lifestyle coach. You are looking for someone who looks with you at wellbeing as a layer in your life that touches everything.

You want to work with what truly feeds you and what drains you. On a layer deeper than nutrition and exercise, with attention for mental, relational and essential wellbeing.

Sound familiar?

When wellbeing is broader than lifestyle

Wellbeing is often translated into lifestyle. Nutrition, movement, sleep. Important, but not the whole layer. This is for those who have the basics in order and yet feel there is something to do in the area of wellbeing.

Your lifestyle is in order but you do not feel it

You do what is advised. It brings less than expected. You notice there is something else asking for attention.

Mental wellbeing is buried

In daily life mental calm gets little priority. You notice your head is too full, that you have little time to settle, that you have lost your underlying base.

Relational wellbeing rubs

Wellbeing is strongly tied to the quality of your relationships. With your partner, colleagues, family, with yourself. That is often where it gnaws.

What can you expect?

How we work together

Wellbeing coaching with me is not a lifestyle plan. It is work in which we approach wellbeing as a whole. Mental, relational, and how you stand in your life.

A deeper approach

We do not look only at habits. We look at what sits beneath your habits, at what truly feeds and drains you, and at how you stand in your life.

The time it needs

Sessions last 1.5 hours. Wellbeing does not let itself be ticked off. Everything is welcome. Without judgement, with full attention.

A safe space

What you say here stays here. Looking honestly at your own wellbeing asks for room. That is here.

Flexible in form

Sessions take place on location in The Hague (indoor or outdoor), online, or a combination.

Lasting change

What wellbeing coaching brings you

Wellbeing coaching brings a different kind of wellbeing that extends across how you feel, how you work, and how you stand in relationships.

A calmer underlying tone

Under all your doing, a base arises that is no longer constantly charged. That is wellbeing you feel without having to do anything for it.

Clarity about what feeds and what drains

You learn to better tell what you really do well and what you might let go. You make sharper choices.

Lasting mental calm

Not as performance but as a base state. Your head is calmer, not because you meditate better but because your system is less burdened.

Deepening in relationships

With partner, children, colleagues. Wellbeing carries through in how you are in contact. That improves relationships without specifically working on them.

A body that joins in

You feel wellbeing in your body. Not as pride in what you achieve, but as a basic feeling of a life that fits.

In depth

How this wellbeing coaching differs

Wellbeing coaching has many interpretations. Some coaches focus mainly on physical wellbeing (nutrition, movement). Others on mental wellbeing (stress, mindfulness). Yet others on relational wellbeing. My approach is integral.

This is not lifestyle coaching. For those specifically working on nutrition, movement or sleep, there are specialised coaches. My work stands alongside and focuses on the broader layer.

Nor is this mindfulness training or stress coaching. For those specifically working on attention or stress, those forms fit better, such as mindfulness coaching or stress coaching. Wellbeing coaching works on wellbeing as a whole.

What you get here is working with wellbeing as connection between layers. How your mental space influences your physical wellbeing, how your relationships influence your mental wellbeing, how your life as a whole produces more or less wellbeing.

I work with three pillars. Psychology, to understand which patterns influence your wellbeing. Systemic work, to see which forces in your life pull at you. And an integral, experience-based approach, because wellbeing is not only knowledge but mainly experience.

Coach Jop Boersma on location in The Hague
About me

Am I the right wellbeing coach for you?

I work with people who do not see wellbeing as a project but as a layer of their life that asks for attention. My approach combines psychology, systemic work and Eastern wisdom. No fixed step-by-step plan, no quick fix. But room to see more deeply what is actually going on and to move from there with more clarity. I work on location in The Hague. Sessions live indoor or outdoor, online or in combination.

What you can expect from me

  • A conversation that approaches wellbeing as a whole
  • Time to look at what truly feeds you
  • A clear view of what harms and strengthens wellbeing
  • Experience with wellbeing work in various contexts
  • Confidential and without judgement
My story →
Offer

One journey, one starting point: you

You begin with a free, no-obligation intake of about an hour. We discuss your situation and look together at what's needed. The sessions afterwards last 1.5 hours, so we have all the space and attention to be with you, without rush or pressure.

Step 1
Introduction
Short phone call. Free.
Step 2
Intake
About an hour, online. Free and no-obligation.
Step 3
The programme
3 sessions of 1.5 hours, over 6 to 8 weeks.
Step 4
Continue or not
In the third session we look together whether this feels complete, or whether there's more to gain.
The Programme
Intake + 3 sessions · 5.5 hours of coaching

In three sessions we explore what's going on, you recognise your patterns, beliefs and stories and gain new insights to start working with. If you want to go deeper afterwards, we continue. If you'd like to leave it here, that's good too.

No-obligation intakeIncluded
Number of sessions3 × 1.5 hours
Period6–8 weeks
FormatIn-person, online or combination
€ 165 per session

Total € 495 for the whole programme. Same rate for business, excl. VAT.

Book an introduction call

Continuing after three sessions?

If you want to go deeper, we continue the journey with a next block of three sessions. You only decide that once you know what we do and what it brings you. Individual sessions for maintenance are always possible.

Follow-up block of 3 € 495
Single session € 165

Tailored

For specific challenges such as (impending) burnout, grief, major life transitions or reintegration. Also for teams and organisations. A programme fully tailored to your pace.

On request Get in touch

Many employers cover coaching through their training budget, so it's always worth asking. Are the costs a barrier for you? Let me know. There's sometimes room.

Ready for the step?

Are you ready for real change?

In a no-obligation introduction we explore together what is going on and whether there is a click. No commitments, just an honest conversation.

Book an introduction
Frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions about wellbeing coaching

Lifestyle coaching focuses on habits around nutrition, movement and sleep. Wellbeing coaching looks broader, also at mental and relational wellbeing.
No. For that side there are specialists. I work on the broader wellbeing layer.
For people who want to approach wellbeing as a whole and who feel that a specific approach on one layer is not enough.
It depends on the package and on your question. The packages below show the options. We choose together what fits where you stand right now.
The Programme consists of an intake and three sessions and costs 495 euros (165 euros per session), the same rate for business excluding VAT. If you want to continue afterwards, you can take a follow-up block of three sessions or book single sessions at 165 euros per session. For more intensive challenges we make a tailored proposal.
Sessions take place on location in The Hague. We can work live, indoor or outdoor, depending on what fits. Wellbeing coaching can also be done fully online or as a combination of live and online.
No. Many people start with the feeling that their wellbeing at a deeper level is asking for something without an acute complaint.

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