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FULLY FOCUSED ON YOU
One-on-one coaching

The Hague or online.

One-on-one coaching with full attention for your question

Does this sound familiar?

You are not looking for a training, a group, a programme where you are one of many. You are looking for someone fully focused on you, working with you on your question, at your pace.

One-on-one coaching with me is not a template you go through. It is work in which everything revolves around what you bring and what shows up.

You want room for what specifically occupies you, without concessions to a group process or someone else's agenda. Working from attention that is only for you.

Sound familiar?

When a group or programme does not fit

Trainings and group coaching work well for many. For others it feels too limiting or impersonal. For those who want room for what is going on for you, one-on-one is sometimes a better fit.

Your question is too specific for a group

What you want to explore does not fit a standardised path. You notice that in a group you do not say things or that your question does not get enough room.

You work at your own pace

You have no need for an agenda that is the same for everyone. What is going on today is different from what is going on in two weeks. A one-on-one setting moves with your rhythm.

You want confidentiality that is not possible in a group

Some topics you do not want to discuss in a group. Work, relationships, history, doubts you have not yet spoken out. An individual setting offers that room.

What can you expect?

How we work together

One-on-one coaching with me is a setting in which everything is focused on you. No group, no workbook for everyone, no fixed agenda. But work that forms around what you bring.

A deeper approach

We work with what you bring at a layer that is worth it. No surface advice, but room to see more deeply what is going on.

The time it needs

Sessions last 1.5 hours. Enough to settle into what is going on. Everything is welcome. Without judgement, with full attention.

A safe space

What you say here stays here. In a one-on-one setting confidentiality is maximal.

Flexible in form

Sessions take place on location in The Hague (indoor or outdoor), online, or a combination.

Lasting change

What one-on-one coaching brings you

What one-on-one coaching brings depends on what you bring. Below a few shifts people often report.

Truly heard and seen

Not as a group member, but as a person. For many this is in itself a shift that does not happen elsewhere.

Clarity that fits your situation

Not general advice, but insights specifically relevant for your context.

Seeing patterns that only play in your life

What does not become visible in a group can come up in a one-on-one setting. That is often where the real work sits.

Clearer choices at your own pace

You do not have to go along with someone else's agenda. You can deepen where useful and move on where fitting.

Confidentiality that creates room

Some insights only emerge in a setting in which you can truly speak in confidence. That room is here.

In depth

How this one-on-one coaching differs

One-on-one coaching is a working form, not a specific method. It says something about the setting (you and the coach) but not about the content. What I mean by one-on-one coaching is work fully focused on your question.

What you get here is full attention in a setting that forms around what you bring. We work with what is going on, at a pace that fits, with working forms that suit.

I work with three pillars. Psychology, to understand which patterns run on. Systemic work, to see which forces in your life pull at you. And an integral, experience-based approach, because individual work is not only thinking but also feeling and experiencing.

For those looking for a group or method, there are other routes. For those looking for individual attention that forms around your question, this form may fit.

Coach Jop Boersma on location in The Hague
About me

Am I the right one-on-one coach for you?

I work with people who value individual attention and who want to work on what is specifically going on for them. My approach combines psychology, systemic work and Eastern wisdom. No fixed step-by-step plan, no quick fix. But room to see more deeply what is actually going on and to move from there with more clarity. I work on location in The Hague. Sessions live indoor or outdoor, online or in combination.

What you can expect from me

  • A conversation entirely focused on you
  • Time to settle into what is going on
  • A clear view of what really matters to you
  • Experience with individual work in various contexts
  • Confidential and without judgement
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Offer

One journey, one starting point: you

You begin with a free, no-obligation intake of about an hour. We discuss your situation and look together at what's needed. The sessions afterwards last 1.5 hours, so we have all the space and attention to be with you, without rush or pressure.

Step 1
Introduction
Short phone call. Free.
Step 2
Intake
About an hour, online. Free and no-obligation.
Step 3
The programme
3 sessions of 1.5 hours, over 6 to 8 weeks.
Step 4
Continue or not
In the third session we look together whether this feels complete, or whether there's more to gain.
The Programme
Intake + 3 sessions · 5.5 hours of coaching

In three sessions we explore what's going on, you recognise your patterns, beliefs and stories and gain new insights to start working with. If you want to go deeper afterwards, we continue. If you'd like to leave it here, that's good too.

No-obligation intakeIncluded
Number of sessions3 × 1.5 hours
Period6–8 weeks
FormatIn-person, online or combination
€ 165 per session

Total € 495 for the whole programme. Same rate for business, excl. VAT.

Book an introduction call

Continuing after three sessions?

If you want to go deeper, we continue the journey with a next block of three sessions. You only decide that once you know what we do and what it brings you. Individual sessions for maintenance are always possible.

Follow-up block of 3 € 495
Single session € 165

Tailored

For specific challenges such as (impending) burnout, grief, major life transitions or reintegration. Also for teams and organisations. A programme fully tailored to your pace.

On request Get in touch

Many employers cover coaching through their training budget, so it's always worth asking. Are the costs a barrier for you? Let me know. There's sometimes room.

Ready for the step?

Are you ready for real change?

In a no-obligation introduction we explore together what is going on and whether there is a click. No commitments, just an honest conversation.

Book an introduction
Frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions about one-on-one coaching

No, my work is fully individual. For group coaching there are other coaches specialised in that.
It is practically the same. One-on-one refers to the setting (individual), personal coaching to the nature (focused on you as a person). With me they coincide.
Standard every two weeks. Sometimes weekly in an intensive phase, sometimes monthly in a calmer period. We choose what fits.
It depends on the package and on your question. The packages below show the options. We choose together what fits where you stand right now.
The Programme consists of an intake and three sessions and costs 495 euros (165 euros per session), the same rate for business excluding VAT. If you want to continue afterwards, you can take a follow-up block of three sessions or book single sessions at 165 euros per session. For more intensive challenges we make a tailored proposal.
Sessions take place on location in The Hague. We can work live, indoor or outdoor, depending on what fits. One-on-one coaching can also be done fully online or as a combination of live and online.
For short questions in between, email is possible. For deeper themes a session is the place. We discuss in the introduction what fits.

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